\u00deetta er ekki a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 vera einhver krassandi metoo saga. En \u00e9g hef \u00fe\u00f6rf a\u00f0 skerpa \u00e1 eigin afst\u00f6\u00f0u hva\u00f0 \u00feetta var\u00f0ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pers\u00f3nulega hef \u00e9g aldrei geta\u00f0 kalla\u00f0 mig feminista. \u00deegar \u00e9g starfa\u00f0i sem strippari \u00fe\u00e1 vann \u00e9g \u00e1 Goldfinger kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 sem feministar kou me\u00f0 skiltin, hr\u00f3pin og k\u00f6llin. Og \u00fea\u00f0 er sagt a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa manst alltaf best hvernig f\u00f3lk l\u00e6tur \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0a og \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g man helst er hrokinn og hvernig \u00fe\u00e6r t\u00f6lu\u00f0u ni\u00f0ur til okkar kvennana sem unnu \u00fearna. \u00de\u00e6r l\u00e9tu m\u00e9r allavega ekki l\u00ed\u00f0a eins og vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum \u00ed sama li\u00f0i. Seinna meir l\u00e6r\u00f0i \u00e9g hugtaki\u00f0 SWERF , sem \u00ed stuttu m\u00e1li er samb\u00e6rilegt TERF nema \u00fea\u00f0 beinist a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki \u00ed kynl\u00edfsvinnu. Jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e9g upplifi ekki beint a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi veri\u00f0 \u00ed kynl\u00edfsvinnu, meira nekt, \u00fe\u00e1 skiptir v\u00edst ekki m\u00edn upplifum m\u00e1li \u00ed st\u00f3ra samhenginu. St\u00f3r partur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g k\u00fds nafnleynd er af\u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g hreinlega nenni ekki samtali vi\u00f0 \u00feessa feminista, sem \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur hafa veri\u00f0 ansi r\u00e1\u00f0andi alveg s.l. 20 \u00e1r h\u00e9r \u00e1 landi. En \u00fea\u00f0 er n\u00fd kynsl\u00f3\u00f0 a\u00f0 ry\u00f0ja s\u00e9r r\u00fams. Me\u00f0 uppgangi \u00ed b\u00e6\u00f0i BDSM og Only Fans \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur \u00cdslenskur Fem\u00ednismi a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 \u00feetta. \u00c9g vi\u00f0urkenni vel a\u00f0 m\u00e9r lei\u00f0ist \u00feetta ekki en \u00e1 sama t\u00edma veit \u00e9g l\u00edka a\u00f0 \u00feetta er ekki m\u00edn bar\u00e1tta.
\u00de\u00f3 \u00e9g hafi alltaf veri\u00f0 m\u00f3tfallin, jafnvel andsn\u00fain \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 titla mig feminista \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ast li\u00f0in \u00e1r \u00fe\u00e1 hef \u00e9g fundi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfa mig fikrast n\u00e6r \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00f6gulega s\u00e6ttast vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alveg sama hvar \u00fe\u00fa stendur \u00e1 l\u00ednunni var\u00f0andi kynfer\u00f0isbrot og ofbeldi almennt \u00fe\u00e1 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 neita \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Metoo hefur breytt samtalinu \u00ed \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9laginu. Og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fataf fyrir sig er st\u00f3rkostlegur hlutur. En vi\u00f0 lifum \u00e1 t\u00edmum umbreytinga og \u00fea\u00f0 er s\u00e1rt, \u00feannig er \u00fea\u00f0 bara.
\u00deegar a\u00f0 \u00e9g les fr\u00e1sagnir \u00fe\u00e1 bergm\u00e1la \u00fe\u00e6r miki\u00f0 sem \u00e9g hef s\u00e9\u00f0 gerast \u00ed kringum mig, fr\u00e1sagnir vinkvena og bara hreinlega allt \u00ed m\u00ednu l\u00edfi f\u00e6r mig ekki til a\u00f0 efast eina einustu fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn sem \u00e9g hef lesi\u00f0.
Og \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi upplifa\u00f0 heldur takmarka\u00f0 ofbeldi \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e1 get \u00e9g ekki neita\u00f0 a\u00f0 miki\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed umhverfi sem \u00e9g kem fr\u00e1 er marka\u00f0 af ofbeldi. F\u00f3lk \u00ed kynl\u00edfsvinnu s\u00e9r og upplifiir ofbeldi. Konur sj\u00e1 og upplifa ofbeldi. Og \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 sem sk\u00fdrist alltaf meir og meir fyrir m\u00e9r. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki bundi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 starf, \u00fea\u00f0 er bundi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 kyn.
\u00c9g.Efast.Enga.Fr\u00e1s\u00f6ng!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sama hva\u00f0 mig langar a\u00f0 skreyta mitt l\u00edf me\u00f0 glimmeri, sem svo sannarlega var upphafsmarkmi\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 byrja a\u00f0 skrifa, \u00fe\u00e1 hafa s\u00ed\u00f0ust 2 \u00e1r svo sannarlega l\u00e1ti\u00f0 mig horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0.
\u00c9g h\u00f3f \u00e1ri\u00f0 2020 svo fokking bjarts\u00fdn. \u00dea\u00f0 var \u00e1ri\u00f0 sem \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 koma \u00fat me\u00f0 BDSM hneig\u00f0 m\u00edna, skr\u00e1 mig \u00e1 fundi og skifa um m\u00edna reynslu, m\u00edna upplifun. Svona weird h\u00fasfr\u00fa 101 inngang \u00ed BDSM. En \u00fea\u00f0 bara ger\u00f0ist ekki. \u00cd sta\u00f0in s\u00e6tti \u00e9g samkomutakm\u00f6rkum og stanslausri skothr\u00ed\u00f0 fr\u00e1 r\u00e9ttilega rei\u00f0um konum. Rei\u00f0i sem\u00e9g skil og s\u00e9 svo sk\u00fdrt. En \u00e9g upplifi ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g eigi neinn sess \u00ed \u00feessari bar\u00e1ttu og m\u00e9r finnst \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 skrifa um t.d. kyrkingar og \u00fe\u00e1 hluti sem vi\u00f0 og \u00e1stk\u00e6r maki h\u00f6fum engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 prufa okkur \u00e1fram me\u00f0 \u00e1 sama t\u00edma. Samt\u00f6lin sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum \u00e1tt vir\u00f0ast einhvernvegin \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi.
En vi\u00f0 lifum \u00e1 t\u00edmum umbreytinga og \u00fea\u00f0 er s\u00e1rt, \u00feannig er \u00fea\u00f0 bara. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00deetta er ekki a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 vera einhver krassandi metoo saga. En \u00e9g hef \u00fe\u00f6rf a\u00f0 skerpa \u00e1 eigin afst\u00f6\u00f0u hva\u00f0 \u00feetta var\u00f0ar. Feminismi Pers\u00f3nulega…<\/p>\n