\u00c1 yfirbor\u00f0inu erum vi\u00f0 afskaplega cis heter\u00f3narmat\u00edv. Vi\u00f0 erum frekar miklar andst\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 kemur a\u00f0 pers\u00f3nuleika, hver sem er s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 strax. \u00c9g get veri\u00f0 h\u00e1v\u00e6r, \u00f3feimin og hvatv\u00eds \u00e1 m\u00f3ti honum sem er r\u00f3legur, \u00fathugsa\u00f0ur og vandvirkur. \u00deessar t\u00fdp\u00edsku andst\u00e6\u00f0ur sem virka.
\u00c9g er langt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera gallalaus og finnst \u00ed raun ekkert a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tala um m\u00edna galla, en jafn merkilegt og \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00e1 finn \u00e9g mikinn styrk \u00ed m\u00ednum g\u00f6llum. J\u00e1 \u00e9g get veri\u00f0 h\u00e1v\u00e6r og jafnvel yfirgn\u00e6fandi en \u00e9g \u00feori oft \u00feegar a\u00f0rir \u00feegja, \u00e9g er aldrei hr\u00e6dd vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 standa me\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r e\u00f0a vera \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf. Fyrir viki\u00f0 hefur oft veri\u00f0 kl\u00ednt \u00e1 mig \u00f3kvennlegheitum og jafnmiki\u00f0 og \u00fea\u00f0 hefur s\u00e6rt mig \u00ed gegnum t\u00ed\u00f0ina \u00fe\u00e1, \u00feegar upp er sta\u00f0i\u00f0 er \u00e9g laus vi\u00f0 \u00feessa ster\u00ed\u00f3t\u00fdp\u00edsku kynja\u00edmynd og \u00fea\u00f0 er svo frelsandi. Og \u00fea\u00f0 sem skiptir mig mestu m\u00e1li \u00ed \u00f6llum heiminum er a\u00f0 \u00e9g er me\u00f0 Maka sem veitir m\u00e9r frelsi til a\u00f0 vera akkurat n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega bara \u00e9g, \u00e9g kann ekkert anna\u00f0 en a\u00f0 vera bara \u00e9g. \u00c9g geri m\u00e9r grein fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g er erfi\u00f0 \u00ed samb\u00fa\u00f0, \u00e9g er langt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera allra, en \u00e9g upplifi mikla blessun a\u00f0 hafa fundi\u00f0 einhvern sem kann a\u00f0 meta mig akkurat n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega einsog \u00e9g er og \u00fea\u00f0 sem meira er n\u00e6r \u00ed gegnum vitleysuna \u00ed m\u00e9r, f\u00e6r mig til a\u00f0 vakna upp \u00e1 hverjum degi og vera betri manneskja. \u00c9g er kl\u00e1rlega svona Live Hard, Love Hard, Play Hard manneskja en hann kl\u00e1rlega dregur fram mj\u00faku hli\u00f0ina m\u00edna og hann hefur einhver \u00e1hrif \u00e1 mig sem enginn manneskja \u00ed m\u00ednu l\u00edfi hefur haft \u00e1 mig.
Og hann er heldur ekki gallalaus, en \u00e9g \u00e6tla a\u00f0 leggja \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9rstaklega \u00e1 mig r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 akkurat ekki neitt. \u00deessi skrif eru ekki \u00e6tlu\u00f0 til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hans galla heldur kannski meira vinna \u00far m\u00ednum eigin. En \u00fea\u00f0 sem mig langar a\u00f0 tala um \u00ed sambandi vi\u00f0 hann er meira samf\u00e9lagslegt mein frekar en hans pers\u00f3nulegu gallar.
Reglulega er r\u00e6tt \u00ed samf\u00e9laginu um eitra\u00f0a karlmennsku, Elsku Makinn minn samr\u00fdmist ekki alltaf hugmyndum af ster\u00f3t\u00fdp\u00edskum karlmennsku og \u00e9g hef s\u00e9\u00f0 hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 hefur \u00e1hrif \u00e1 hann og hans sj\u00e1lfsmynd. Hans styrkur felst fyrst og fremst \u00ed \u00e1kve\u00f0inni m\u00fdkt og yfirvegun, styrkur sem \u00e9g d\u00e1ist a\u00f0 enda eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00e9g \u00e1 sj\u00e1lf erfi\u00f0ara me\u00f0, eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00e9g reyni a\u00f0 tileinka m\u00e9r meira.
En jafn oft og reynt hefur veri\u00f0 kl\u00edna \u00f3kvennleika \u00e1 mig s\u00e9 \u00e9g a\u00f0 hann upplifir sj\u00e1lfan sig \u00f3karlmannlegann. \u00dea\u00f0 kemur fram \u00e1 allskonar vegu en \u00fea\u00f0 kristallast helst \u00ed okkar kynl\u00edfi, \u00fear er \u00e9g kl\u00e1rlega \u00e1gengari manneskjan, meiri kinkster og me\u00f0 meiri kyn\u00fe\u00f6rf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9g vil f\u00e1tt meira en a\u00f0 vera s\u00fa kona sem l\u00e6tur Manninn sinn upplifa sig sem s\u00e9rstaklega karmannlegann en \u00e9g upplifi \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 mj\u00f6g \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6ginlegan m\u00e1ta a\u00f0 \u00e9g get ekki skori\u00f0 \u00ed gegnum \u00e1ratugina af samf\u00e9lagslegum hugmyndum um karlmennsku og \u00e1hrif \u00feeirra \u00e1 hans sj\u00e1lfsmynd. Fyrir m\u00e9r er hann hinn fullkomni karlma\u00f0ur, mitt vandam\u00e1l er bara a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9r sig ekki me\u00f0 m\u00ednum augum. \u00deannig \u00e9g \u00ed f\u00e1visku minni reyni a\u00f0 styrkja hans hugmyndir um eigin karlmensku me\u00f0 kynl\u00edfi. Veita honum sama frelsi og hann veitir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 vera \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf og finna minn eigin kvennleika \u00ed m\u00e9r en ekki einhverjum ster\u00ed\u00f3t\u00fdp\u00edskum samf\u00e9lagslegum hugmyndum, sem a\u00f0 m\u00ednu mati eru hand\u00f3n\u00fdtar glansmyndir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00deannig \u00feegar \u00e9g er a\u00f0 l\u00fdsa okkar kynl\u00edfi h\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e1 mun \u00fea\u00f0 alveg koma fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g er kl\u00e1rlega s\u00fa sem er \u00e1gengari, en \u00fea\u00f0 skiptir mig m\u00e1li a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 komi fram a\u00f0 ster\u00ed\u00f3t\u00fdp\u00edskar hugmyndir um hvernig kynin “eiga” a\u00f0 haga s\u00e9r hefur kl\u00e1rlega haft \u00e1kve\u00f0in ska\u00f0leg \u00e1hrif \u00e1 mitt samband, \u00e1hrif sem \u00e9g vil a\u00f0 komi fram einhverssta\u00f0ar \u00ed \u00f6llum \u00feessum skrifum. Og me\u00f0 vinnu, samt\u00f6lum og allskonar \u00fe\u00e1 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vinna sig \u00ed gegnum \u00feetta, yfirst\u00edga flest vandam\u00e1l. \u00dea\u00f0 l\u00edka skiptir mig m\u00e1li a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 komi fram einhverssta\u00f0ar a\u00f0 hann er miklu meira en bara einhver karlma\u00f0ur sem er \u00fe\u00e1ttakandi \u00ed kynl\u00edfinu sem \u00e9g stunda me\u00f0 honum, hann er n\u00f3gu sterkur til a\u00f0 \u00feola mig daglega, hvetja mig til a\u00f0 vera betri manneskja \u00ed lifandi l\u00edfi og fulln\u00e6gir \u00f6llum m\u00ednum l\u00edkamlegum og andlegum \u00fe\u00f6rfum betur en nokkur ster\u00ed\u00f3t\u00fdp\u00edsk hugmynd af karlmanni g\u00e6ti nokkurnt\u00edman gert. \u00dea\u00f0 fyrir m\u00e9r er algj\u00f6r h\u00e1tindur \u00feess a\u00f0 vera karlma\u00f0ur, minn karlma\u00f0ur!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9g b\u00fdst vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g er \u00ed grunninn a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 segja er ekki vera hr\u00e6dd vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara ykkar eigin lei\u00f0ir \u00ed ykkar eigin sambandi, geri\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem hjarta\u00f0 ykkar segir a\u00f0 s\u00e9 r\u00e9tt en ekki endilega \u00fea\u00f0 samf\u00e9lagslega. \u00cd m\u00ednu tilviki \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00e9g drusla \u00ed hverri einustu frumu \u00ed m\u00ednum l\u00edkama og \u00e9g f\u00e6 a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta \u00feess \u00ed botn me\u00f0 mj\u00faka manninum m\u00ednum sem vir\u00f0ist elska mig \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 n\u00e1nast me\u00f0 \u00f6llu samf\u00e9lagslega \u00f3h\u00e6f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u00c1 yfirbor\u00f0inu erum vi\u00f0 afskaplega cis heter\u00f3narmat\u00edv. Vi\u00f0 erum frekar miklar andst\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 kemur a\u00f0 pers\u00f3nuleika, hver sem er s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 strax. \u00c9g get…<\/p>\n