\u00deetta blog mitt er a\u00f0allega \u00e6tla\u00f0 fyrir kynl\u00edfstal, \u00e9g mun ekki koma til me\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a nein annarskonar sambandsvandam\u00e1l. \u00dea\u00f0 er partlega af\u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g vil \u00fea\u00f0 ekki og partlega af\u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g m\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki, \u00e9g hef leyfi fr\u00e1 \u00c1stk\u00e6rum Maka a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a kynl\u00edf. En \u00feegar upp er sta\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00fa einn st\u00e6rsta ors\u00f6k skilna\u00f0ar, kynl\u00edf, \u00feannig \u00fea\u00f0 er alveg n\u00f3g fyrir mig a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
En mig langar a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 parar\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f er g\u00f3\u00f0ur hlutur og enginn \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera feiminn vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja sl\u00edka \u00fej\u00f3nustu. Stundum eru a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feannig innan samband a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hreinlega \u00fearf \u00feri\u00f0ja a\u00f0ila sem t\u00falk \u00feegar samskipti ver\u00f0a s\u00far. Ef \u00fe\u00fa ert tilb\u00fain\/nn til a\u00f0 berjast fyrir \u00fe\u00ednu sambandi \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 alltaf \u00feess vir\u00f0i og \u00fea\u00f0 er enginn sk\u00f6mm sem fylgir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sm\u00e1 back up. \u00c9g meina einhverja \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a haf\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 k\u00edkja \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0una m\u00edna og ef \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 lesa akkurat \u00feessi or\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00edmynda \u00e9g m\u00e9r a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0 lausn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vi\u00f0 hj\u00f3nin erum me\u00f0 hj\u00f3nabandsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafa sem hefur hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0 okkur gr\u00ed\u00f0arlega. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki merki um a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e9 bila\u00f0 heldur er \u00fea\u00f0 merki um a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 gera hva\u00f0 sem er til a\u00f0 sinna hvort \u00f6\u00f0ru og okkar sambandi, a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum ekki a\u00f0 gefast upp svo au\u00f0veldlega ef eitthva\u00f0 bj\u00e1tar \u00e1.
Vi\u00f0 vissulega s\u00f3ttum r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f \u00fev\u00ed okkar samskipti voru komin \u00ed klessu og \u00ed okkar tilviki \u00fe\u00e1 vildum vi\u00f0 hreinlega vera viss um hvort skilna\u00f0ur v\u00e6ri \u00fea\u00f0 besta fyrir okkur. Vi\u00f0 komumst a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki, a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir bresti \u00ed samskiptum \u00fe\u00e1 elskum vi\u00f0 hvort anna\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 gera margt og miki\u00f0 til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta upp fyrir og laga eigin pers\u00f3nulegu bresti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00ed okkar tilviki eigum vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn, m\u00e9r finnst vi\u00f0 hreinlega skulda okkar b\u00f6rnum \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 ef \u00fea\u00f0 k\u00e6mi til skilna\u00f0ar a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 getum horft \u00ed augun \u00e1 \u00feeim og sagt me\u00f0 hreinni samvisku \u201cVi\u00f0 reyndum ALLT.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Og umfram allt, muni\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er algj\u00f6rlega \u00f3m\u00f6gulegt a\u00f0 taka r\u00e9tta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur er rei\u00f0ur. Aldrei taka jafn afdrifar\u00edka \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un og skilna\u00f0 \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur er rei\u00f0ur, panta\u00f0u frekar t\u00edma hj\u00e1 r\u00e1\u00f0gjafa, skrifa\u00f0u ni\u00f0ur hva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 valda rei\u00f0inni og r\u00e6ddu \u00fea\u00f0 svo \u00ed g\u00f3\u00f0u t\u00f3mi \u00ed s\u00f3l\u00f3 e\u00f0a parat\u00edma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9g held me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r!
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\u00deetta blog mitt er a\u00f0allega \u00e6tla\u00f0 fyrir kynl\u00edfstal, \u00e9g mun ekki koma til me\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a nein annarskonar sambandsvandam\u00e1l. \u00dea\u00f0 er partlega af\u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g vil…<\/p>\n